We all get the same 24 hours and the only variable is how we spend that time.
Now, a mother of two and a small business owner, my time has felt more precious than ever.
I started thinking about how I spend my time and realized I was guilty of watching a slightly humiliating amount of TV.
This got me thinking…what if I removed the TV from my bedroom and replaced it with a stack of books?
I have decided to do just that and today I disconnected our TV and cable box and replaced them with some pretty flowers and a pile of books and magazines that I am excited to read. I am also planning to create a basket of kids books so I can read my girls stories instead of watching a show with them.
I find that when I walk into the room it feels so different. Now, it is a room that invites me to rest, think, read, be creative. I realized how much time I was squandering on TV and am excited to see how removing it will impact my life and how I spend my time.
Do you have thoughts about the role of television in your life? Would love to hear from you!
We have one bathroom and a rapidly growing family so I try to make sure our products are as minimal as possible. Recently, I came across this simple and affordable solution by Umbra. My husband and I each take one compartment and use the bottom one for baby products and bubble bath. It limits us to the space provided and keeps the rest of the shower area clutter free!
When your time is limited and life feels hectic here are a few quick and easy things you can do to feel better fast:
1. Make the Bed ~ Proven to improve mood and only takes a few minutes.
2. Buy Yourself Fresh Flowers ~ They brighten any room and make your home look loved.
3. Make a List ~ When your brain feels like it might explode jot down & prioritize everything that is bogging you down.
4. Make Yourself a Hotel Style Breakfast ~ Nothing better than fluffy eggs, pastries & fresh squeezed juice to start your day!
5. Set Aside Some Time To Do Nothing ~ With all the racing around we do, it feels incredible to give yourself the gift of a little space and silence. Try to find a little time for yourself each day. Enjoy!
Having gone through two pregnancies in the last three years I am well aware of the pressures to succumb to consumerist madness during this transitional time. Overwhelmed by the lists, advice, commercials and books imploring me to buy every imaginable product for myself and my unborn baby, I turned to my mom for help.
“All babies need is a place to sleep, loving parents and food!” she snapped.
Per usual, mom was right. I discovered first hand that many of the items I had invested in or registered for were totally worthless once our baby was on the scene. A minimalist at heart I felt silly for getting carried away with buying every imaginable swaddle blanket, burp cloth and bottle imaginable. My daughter never spit up so the rainbow of adorable printed burp cloths were completely useless. She hated the expensive stroller we had selected and never took a pacifier. My advice is to invest in the basic necessities (a good car seat, a place to sleep, some clothing and blankets) and hold off on the gadgets and gimmicks until you meet your baby and get to know their unique preferences.
All that being said, here are a few things that proved to be quite useful during pregnancy and the first year:
The Pregnancy Wedge – (By Boppy, $15) Those huge pregnancy full body pillows made me crazy and made our queen bed feel too crowded. This felt like just the right support for my back and hips and helped me get some much-needed rest during the final, uncomfortable months.
Coconut Water (Various brands; available at any health food store) Full of potassium and super refreshing, this healthy drink also helped calm my insatiable sweet tooth!
Yoga DVDs – A friend gave me this prenatal yoga DVD and I did it as often as I could.
A Well-Stocked Diaper Bag – In addition to packing for the hospital I found it reassuring to have my diaper bag locked and loaded and ready for baby. I included the following items in mine: Diapers, wipes, changing pad, change of clothing for baby, & hand sanitizer, lip-gloss and lotion for me.
Tip: I also found that the expensive designer diaper bags were a bit of a racket. Any lightweight over-sized bag with compartments will work just fine! My pick for a great bag: Ellington Amelia Convertible Tote
My friend, Ben Smythe, takes simple living and minimalism to another level. He is one of the most joyful people I know and everything he owns can fit in a single backpack. I asked him to contribute a guest blog post since he is always offering up wonderful tidbits of wisdom and inspiration.
Here is what he had to say:
1. Minimalism is about maximizing the most precious resource on earth: time. The less I have to manage my stuff, the more time I have to enjoy the view.
2. Everything is temporary, including me. Stress and suffering arises when I resist this simple fact.
3. More than things, we want connection. I have a one-a-day philosophy that guarantees a moment of connection: offer one person help, ask for help from one person and make a stranger smile.
4. Self-investigation is the simplest way to discover that underneath all those stressful thoughts you are an unending source of peace and contentment.
5. All fear is the fear of love. It is easy to think it is the fear of death, but in reality, what we are most afraid of is opening our heart as wide as we secretly know it can go.
Benjamin Smythe teaches self-investigation to people around the world. He spends a good portion of his time holding a sign in the Bay Area that reads, “You’re Perfect.” He is the author of I am Life: Notes on the Obvious. For more information go to: www.benjamintsmythe.com
Shoe storage is quite the conundrum, especially if you take your shoes off as soon as you walk in the door. I have not found many solutions that are aesthetically appealing and asked my stylish friend Hedy for advice. She told me about her designer friend, Debbie, who had a “shoe wheel,”and I became obsessed with tracking it down. Here it is in all of its innovative and space-saving glory! Do you have a shoe storage solution to share? Do tell!
You’ve scoured your house and conquered the clutter. Now what to do with the piles of unwanted gear? Have yourself a Simply Sorted Yard Sale!
Pick a clear weekend and save the date and the day before for prep. (Avoid holiday weekends) Garage sale groupies come at the crack of dawn so start your sale as early as you can and plan to wrap up by early afternoon.
Advertise the sale by posting date/time/location on Craigslist.org, Facebook.com and any other social media sites you like. Spring for a newspaper ad in your local paper as well. Write a few catchy sentences highlighting great deals or unusual items to attract buyers.
Organize your sale items in a large clear space in your home. In preparation for the big day it is always helpful to sort things by category (electronics, books, furniture, clothing, etc.) so they are ready to lay out neatly for your sale.
Decide on easy and attractive pricing – Make all books $1 or all electronics $15. This will encourage people to snatch things up and buy more! Remember people go to garage sales for a deal – Sell pricier items in advance of your sale on Ebay.com or an auction house or pawnshop.
Invite friends and family to come help you set-up and sell in exchange for good company, snacks and beverages. People can be easily lured to help if you offer up quality treats!
Setting Up: Arrange like items together in organized groups – i.e. all kids toys, games and books together, all electronics together, etc. – Lay clothing and jewelry flat on a large tarp or blanket so people don’t have to rummage through your stuff to view it. Consider propping up a large mirror if you are selling a lot of clothing and accessories.
Day-of Tips: If it is a hot day consider selling iced-cold lemonade; for cold days offer hot chocolate in disposable cups and warm donuts. When making change leave the customer’s bills out in view until after you have given them their change. Offer bags or boxes to people who buy multiple items.
Line up a Salvation Army pick-up for the next day so you can ditch the unwanted items for good. Call 1-800-SA-TRUCK (1-800-728-7825) to discuss a free pick up of your clothing, furniture or household items or to find out the nearest drop off location bin. Alternately, you can donate to a favorite charity or person in need
Large signs + staple gun or tape to advertise the sale in your neighborhood.
Several large tarps and/or blankets for setting up smaller items and clothing
A cash box or money belt
Lots of small bills ($1’s and $5’s) to give change
A calculator for adding up multiple purchases
Old boxes, bags and newspapers for fragile items and big sales
Large cardboard box with a “FREE” sign for broken or stained items
Beverages and snacks for yourself and your helpers
Lemonade, cookies, etc to offer or sell to customers
Ipod or music system
A card table for music, snacks, etc.
Folding chairs for you and your garage sale buddies to recline in when it’s slow